Dating online hacks
Whether you’ve had reservations about trying dating or not, the fact is that it can be a very convenient way to meet people who are local and interested in meeting new guys.
It allows for you to date on your terms and on your schedule, which is sometimes the hardest part when finding time to commit to meeting someone.
However, like anything good in life there are some downfalls. Here are some simple tips to make your online dating experience positive and successful.
1. Don’t be afraid to say hi
I’ve seen far too many guys with tons of matches on Tinder, yet they refuse to message them and say hi. What’s the point of matching with girls who are clearly interested in you, if you aren’t going to talk to them?
Much like meeting girls in person, you miss out on endless opportunities by not saying hi. What’s the worst that can happen if they don’t respond? You’ll still be in the same position as you are now.
2. Put thought into your initial greeting
There are jokes that apps like Tinder are notorious for guys with cheesy pick-up lines. I’ll admit, sometimes they work; but it’s not because they are clever, it’s because they make you stand out. I would recommend another way to make yourself stand out. Apps like Hinge tell you much more about the person’s preferences which make for great conversation starters.
Look at their profile and pick something to comment on. Either a picture or one of her interests. It’s much easier to ignore, “Heyy, how are you?” then it is to ignore, “So jealous you got to see the Chainsmokers, I’ve been wanting to see them!”. This makes you seem human and genuinely interested in them.
3. Don’t put on an act
The old cliché, be yourself. If you’re a jokester, be a jokester. If you’re sarcastic, be sarcastic. Pretending to be something you are not will only last so long, and if things get serious between you two then eventually she’ll wonder what happened to the guy she originally met.
Presenting the truest form of you prepares them for what hanging out and being with you in person will really be like.
4. Utilize your bio
It’s a common misconception that your tinder bio is useless. It’s your first opportunity to make an impression that goes beyond just your pictures.
It’s important not to reveal important personal information in your bio, but use the opportunity to tell them about yourself, things you like to do, music you like, or awesome trips you’ve been on.
The more you give them to work with, the more chances they might message you first about something interesting you shared!
5. Watch out for scammers
Approximately $1 billion dollars has been lost from Americans and Canadians in romance scams since 2015. Everyone thinks they are too smart to fall for a scam yet 1 in 10 new profiles are fake.
Whether it’s just a girl hoping you send her some money or a professional hacker, dating apps have their fair share.
Even just using your phone on public WIFI without using a VPN can leave you vulnerable to eavesdroppers looking to gather personal information. So stick to secure networks and swiping at home!
Online dating gives you a huge advantage. It allows you not only to meet people who are single and looking to mingle, but it allows you to find people with specific interests that you find important.
So, before you make a decision on online dating, consider the tips mentioned and give it a try!
